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An online psychology site. There will be many articles about many psychology subjects, but it will take a while. Very busy with several things. It will be very easy to understand, because psychology is not complicated.

What is psychology

Very simple, it is the knowlegde on how your brains are working. In other words the way you are thinking and responding to issues. Psychology is not complicated, but easy to understand for everyone. You are using psychology all day long, but probably you don't realise it. On this site I'll explain what psychology is and how it can help you. There is a lot more posible then you think.

Psychology is simple and easy to explain if you know what you are talking about. If you don't know, it is complicated and it cannot help you to understand yourself and others. If you cannot understand yourself, you cannot grow and leave your problems behind you. If you cannot understand others, you increase the change of having contact problemsssss with others. I can explain a lot about psychology because my approach is different. What will be on this site are not theories, but facts and the way things really are. And is soo simple.

Explaining psychology in a way that everybody understands, is only possible if the explainer knows what he is talking about. But most psychologists don't. They have learned many theories at their study, but really understanding psychology is what they are not doing. There is a major difference between knowing and understanding. You can learn theories about swimming, but you only understand swimming if you swim. Someone who has always been oudside the water never understand the feeling of swimming. It doesn't matter how many theories you learn.

My approach is completely different. I also studied the psychologists like Freud, Jung, Adler and Maslow. They said interesting things but it didn't help me grow. It didn't came any further then interesting knowledge. I'll skip the details on my personal journey and growth to a completely different person on this page. Because of the writing at my book I really understand things and my vision / explanation is completely different from other psychologists.

I know what I am talking about. Not only because I figgered out things myself, but more important, I have changed. I used to be tensed, unhappy and insecure. This is all gone now, because I have found my inner peace and I am feeling very happy. In other words, I found my balance and I know for sure, it will never leave me anymore.

To explain my vision om psychology compared to other psychologist in a few words: it goes one step deeper. Take angryness as an example. One could try to make angryness controlable or find a way to blow of steam, but this doesn't solve the problem. The most important step is to figure our why someone is angry. There is a reason for being angry. Find the reason and you are one step closer to solving it.

For every psychological problem, there is a reason. Find the reason and there will be a change to solve it. If you try to to fight or lower the problem, the problem will still exists. If you want to stop a water flow, you can build a dyke. But the dyke will have to be there forever and you have to keep on raisen it, because the water (problem) keeps on coming. Find the source and close it. Same for psychological problems like lonelyness, low self esteem, insecure, etc. Find the problem so you can understand it and get rid of it.

There is a reason why someone is insecure. It is the way one is thinking and there is a reason why someone thinks like that. Go into the deep and find the source of insecurity. It will be there somewhere, because you didn't have when you where born. Otherwise you would have the curage to take your first step. And there is no natural source for being insecure.

If you understand the mental processes, you can help yourself and influence others in a positive way. You can grow yourself and start feeling happy (again). It is possible to make someone else happy, angry, insecure, depressed or whatever mood. Off course the positive results are the only proper ways. Forward is the only way to go.

In other words, with understanding psychology you can be a hapier person, improve social contacts and improve someone elses happines. With this site I will try to explain the basics of understandable psychology. Because my book is not available in english, this is all I can do for now.

To avoid misunderstanding I am not some kind of guru trying to start some kind of new order or group. I don't even to be a leader of some kind of sect. I prefer to do other thing in my life. So it is only I understand certain thing, I am a very happy person and want to share this.

Psychology is a very important factor in human life. Maybe the most important one. You can be the rightest person on this planet, have the best job in the world, but if you are not happy, your life is a waste. All human problems like wars, sueside, fighting, insecurenes, etc only exist because there are psychological problems with humans.